The Pygmalion Effect - High Expectations, Higher Influence

Let us face it: if you walk into a presentation, sales meeting, or team huddle expecting people to be resistant, skeptical, or disinterested, you have already sabotaged your results. Too many professionals radiate low expectations, and then wonder why their team slacks off or why prospects refuse to buy. Persuasion is a transfer of the expectations you project.  Those expectations directly shape how others perform and respond to you.     The Pygmalion Effect is a proven psychological phenomenon where higher expectations placed upon individuals lead to an increase in their performance. It's also known as a self-fulfilling prophecy: people subconsciously pick up on your subtle cues, vocal inflections, and body language. When you expect someone to succeed, or make a buying decision, your belief creates a psychological climate that makes it significantly easier for them to say YES.   Is there a downside to expectations? Absolutely, and it is known as the Golem Effect, where low or nega