How to love: 1. Ask, “Jesus, what do you want to say and do here?” 2. Ask, “What does this person need?” Which is not always the same as “What does this person want or what do I want the person to want?” 3. Ask, “Jesus, how do you want to address this need?” 4. “Jesus, I am available for you to work through me, and the resources at my disposal are available for your use, to display your love to this person.”
