We’ve all met a toxic queer. Some of us have dated them. Some of us have been them. Today we’re talking about the drama that—for once—doesn’t come from straight people.
We’re talking about queers who weaponise their trauma, who treat accountability like a personal attack, who center themselves in every conversation—especially the ones that aren’t about them. The ones who know all the right language, all the radical theory, all the Instagram slides—and still manage to hurt everyone around them.
It’s messy. It’s uncomfortable. And it’s also necessary. Because while queer spaces can be healing, liberating, and joyful… they can also be cliquey, competitive, and full of power dynamics we pretend don’t exist. So let’s unpack it. With love, with shade, and maybe—just maybe—a little bit of self-reflection."
Welcome back to Bizarre Bedfellows—the podcast about terrible flatmates, chosen family gone rogue, and the kinds of people you wish came with a warning label. Let’s get into it."
